"What if" is not a way to live your life. "What is" is about the now that will lead you to "what it will be".
Not every day is perfect, but you sure can find a positive in every day.
When you see someone fall down, help them up physically, mentally and spiritually.
If you don't like your reality, change your perception!
Sometimes the only thing you can do is to smile. Share it with others as it may mean more to them then you realize.
Take time every day to focus on you if you wish to better you.
If you wish to be positive, surround yourself with positive people.
You might want to start some positive momentum in your life.